As I broke up with yet another boyfriend, I conjured up images of what married life might look like if I hadn’t asked for divorce several decades ago. I began wondering if I would ever find someone like my ex-husband. Not that I would want to be with him again but something about the glow …
Monthly Archives: March 2020
Coaching and Someone Believing in you
Something clicked in me today as I woke up and I felt that wave of shame in my gut and over my shoulders and I wondered where it was coming from. And then I heard her, my mother “it could have been better”, “you’re such a fool”, “you never do anything right”. No wonder I …
Building Self-Esteem
I watched my friend check my gate on my behalf the other night and I suddenly realised that I trust her more than myself to make sure the lock is secured. Is my self-esteem so low that I can’t even believe that I can lock a gate properly? Do I still have that much work …
Is Self-Indulgence Bad?
I have several friends who base their life on only pursuing their own pleasure. Some work as little as possible and just enough to have money for their various parties or hobbies. Some avoid all responsibility and again, work just enough for their guilty pleasures. Are they happy? They all drink too much which is …